Chapter 9
GIVE ME NEITHER POVERTY NOR RICHES
(My 3 years of high school, grades 10
thru 12, graduating at the end of May 1964)
When
school starts back the 1st week of September, I’m most eager to get
back to school. Many other students hate to see their summer playtime come to
an end. But for me, summer is mostly hard farm labour in the hot sun. Returning
to the classrooms with no fans (much less air conditioning), sweat from our
hands and arms often soak the papers onto which we write. We long for the cool
of October.
In September
1961, I start the 10th grade. Senior High School. The Greek word “sophomore”
sure sounds prestigious to this red neck farm boy. I am now in senior high school, steadily
rising. I apply myself diligently to my studies, greatly enjoying the Physical
Education hour, outside, playing football or softball or just horsing around
with other boys.
When
the last school bell sounds at 2:45 PM, we 3 Yerby boys soon get on the school
bus that takes us home and quickly change into our farm work clothes to spend
the last half of weekday afternoons (and all day on Saturdays) hand picking
cotton. I diligently watch to see which farmers around us first start picking
cotton, ask if they’ll hire me, and then beg Daddy to let me pick for them (for
pay) as many days as he can permit. What a delight (and financial help) to earn
that money.
Most
farmers set a goal of finishing harvesting their cotton and then their corn by
Thanksgiving. We were always far behind that goal, often trying to get all our cotton
picked by Christmas and the corn harvest finished in January. That is way
too tardy for each of those crops. Thus, undue exposure to rain and such
reduced the quality of each crop, reducing their value.
At
this age, I greatly enjoy the time from late September (when stifling summer
heat abates) till the 1st week in January when we go back to school
after Christmas vacation. Mild autumn days followed by Thanksgiving Day and
Christmas season bring such joy, nice large meals, Christmas presents, and days
out of school. The few days Daddy doesn’t make us work, I often hunt.
In January
1962, I turn 16 years old, reaching a plateau that makes me think I’m
definitely nearing adulthood. Several classmates get their drivers’ license
immediately upon reaching this required age of 16. I’m not one of them. Several
of them start driving to school themselves. The students’ parking lot is quite
large. So the guys in my class are filled with talk of cars. I simply listen to
them as I continue to walk to town and back and to other places up and down the
road from our house. I study hard and made good grades, thank God.
I
think it’s during the 10th grade that I was chosen for the Key Club
at school, a club for senior high male students with vague goals of doing good
deeds for the community.
Spring
finds me, brothers and Daddy breaking and disking the fields with the tractor
(into the night on several nights) and doing much other field work, hurrying to
get the crops into the ground (planted) on time. We never had to plow at night
back when we plowed with horses and had no tractor. But with lights on the
tractor, we can see well enough to do the breaking and disking at night. Other
farmers also did this plowing at night when necessary.
One
spring afternoon when I arrived home from school, Daddy told me to drive the
tractor down to the Thomas place and break a certain field. “You should be able
to finish it by about 8 o’clock (PM). So stay with it till you finish it.”
Darkness
fell long before I finished plowing that field about 8 PM, raised the plow and
pulled the tractor out onto the highway to drive a third of a mile back to the
house. Long before, the bulb had burned out in the one and only rear light
on our tractor. There was no large reflector on the rear. So, my backside was
dark. The two front lights were lighting the road in front of me.
A
man driving alone in his car approached me from behind at about 70 miles an
hour. He didn’t see the tractor until his headlights lighted the rear of the
tractor that was traveling only about 20 miles an hour. He instantly stomped on
his brakes while jerking his steering wheel to the left.
I’m
greatly surprised to hear the squealing of tires as he locks his brakes and his
car starts to slide sideways as he whips the steering wheel to the left. His
car just barely misses the plow on back and the rear of the
tractor as it slides sideways and to the left. In a flash, the front end of his
car is leaving the left side of the road. He instantly whips the steering wheel
back to the right, causing the car to almost completely reverse direction,
putting it into a sideways slide with its rear on the left shoulder of the
highway and the front end of the car now facing the right side of the road. He
passes close by to the left of me in that strange fashion. His high
speed catapults the car back across the road right in front of my tractor onto
the right shoulder. Driver now whips the steering wheel to the left again. On
the graveled sloping right shoulder the car again instantly slides around 180
degrees to the left, facing sideways to the road and sliding sideways forward
on the right shoulder of the road (directly in front of my eyes that are now
each about the size of the moon).
The
car’s speed is abating, so it does not again catapult across the road, but
slides sideways directly ahead just a few more seconds before finally slowing
to a stop. The car stops sideways on the right shoulder, facing the left
shoulder, with a cloud of dust in the air and the smell of burning rubber. All
throughout that “impossible, miraculous” maneuver, his tires squealed loudly
and slung much dirt and gravel into the air each time they were on the graveled
shoulder.
I
had a close up 3-dimension view (free of charge) of that amazing driving stunt,
at my rear, left side and front. (People pay money to view such from the
distant stands at a car show.) You would not have wanted to be there to
see it, because likely your heart would have failed. Upon the car finally
stopping, the driver slowly pulled it up onto the road from the sloping
shoulder, turning it to the right and stopping it facing forward. Then he got
out and came to address the little driver of the tractor.
The
little driver had no desire to be addressed.
That
man was trembling and had trouble speaking coherently. “Why don’t you have the
tail light turned on?!!”
‘The
bulb is burnt out. I’m sorry.’
“We
almost got killed!!”
‘I’m
sorry. I’ll tell Daddy that he must replace that bulb.’
With
a few more choice words the driver got into his car and drove on home. He let me off most lightly.
God was most gracious to protect us both from getting killed.
Had that driver been just a little lax in diligently watching the dark road
ahead, he would not have seen me in time to avoid hitting me squarely from
behind. That could have killed both him and me. I marvel at his quick and
accurate reflexes all the way thru that stunt. However, when the car was twice
sliding sideways at a quite high speed, it could have easily rolled over and
over several times sideways.
Also,
had there been an oncoming vehicle approaching us right in front of my tractor
at that time, this driver coming from behind would have hit it head on,
whipping into the left lane as he did. He might have opted to not turn his car,
just stomp on his brakes and plow into the rear of my tractor. If he had done
so, it could have easily killed me (and possibly him) (no seat belts or air
bags in those days). A third option would have been for him to stomp on his
brakes while instantly whipping his car to the right and immediately shoot off
the road and the shoulder into the bushes on the right side of the road. He
could have been killed if he had done that. Almighty Lord Jehovah God was most
gracious to spare that man and me that night. And the trouble was entirely my
fault, or Dad’s fault.
I
drove on home, told Daddy what had happened and urged him to buy a new bulb and
put into that rear light. I think the old
bulb had burnt out over a year ago. It cost money to buy another bulb. So in
his poverty, Daddy just took the chance. It almost cost my life, and possibly
that other driver’s life. If that man’s car had slammed into the rear of our
tractor at the high speed he was going, the accident would have brought much grief and expense to each of our
families.
GIVE ME NEITHER POVERTY NOR RICHES
Please
listen to a related hazardous matter. After getting the tractor, we hauled hay
and corn from the fields on the trailer pulled by the tractor. We would drive
the tractor into the barn’s hallway to unload those crops (and at times we
drove the tractor into the barn hallway to park it out of the rain).
The
muffler on that Farmall Super C stood straight up from the engine cowling 5 or
6 feet forward of the driver’s face. The very top part of the muffler
was a muffler pipe 10 or more inches high. Its height was designed to reach
well above the driver’s head to send the exhaust gas above his
head. Our poorly built barn was steadily lowering itself as vertical wood
framing rotted and as the barn steadily leaned sideways. Soon the top of that
muffler pipe started scrapping the overhead of the hallway when we drove the
tractor into it. To make a long story short, that continual scrapping bent the
pipe, broke it, and Daddy finished twisting the pipe off the muffler and threw
it away.
That
pipe’s length was well designed to carry the exhaust smoke and fumes up
above the driver’s head. With that pipe now gone, the exhaust comes out
at face level with the driver. The tractor’s forward speed pushes that
breathable poison directly back into the driver’s face. So many times, that
poison made me sick as I drove the tractor. Why did not Daddy buy a new muffler
and install it? Because it costs money, and we were poor. It cost no money to
continue breathing that poison.
GIVE ME NEITHER POVERTY NOR RICHES
Throughout
our sin sick world (especially in the poorest nations), poverty results in all
kinds of powerful machinery being operated in unsafe conditions resulting in
deaths and terrible injuries to many precious souls. It is most
profitable for you to pray the above prayer (in red) for yourself, for your
family, and for all the precious souls in the world. Extreme
poverty is most miserable, most dangerous, and plenty
deadly.
At
the end of the previous chapter in this book, I stated that a foremost goal of
my teen years was to achieve a comfortable living. This “safety” factor was a
major factor in that word “comfortable”. I beg God to save me from seeking
riches for myself. And when my Gracious Lord blesses me with resources above
comfortable and “safe” food, raiment, and shelter (and machines and such items
I choose to use), I want to give as much of my resources as I possibly can to
needy souls who are still in that unsafe, deadly dangerous lifestyle
of poverty.
At
the end of May, school lets out for the summer for us farm boys to return to
the hard labor of chopping cotton, bailing hay and such, all day six days a
week, also fishing and swimming and such whenever we get the chance.
When
school starts back in September 1962, I am a junior, 11th grader. I
rejoice to keep getting very good grades as I steadily move up the education
ladder. The chains that bind me to slave
farm labor are loosening. At school, I study hard, play hard, and enjoy it immensely.
At home, I do farm work vigorously and likewise play vigorously (thankful for
my increasing strength). I follow the routine of the seasons that I have
previously explained to you, enjoying Thanksgiving and Christmas immensely. In
January 1963, I turn 17 years old.
I
mentioned getting chosen by the Key Club in the 10th grade. A
prominent town citizen sponsored the Key Club and meet with us once a month at
school for 30 minutes at activity period. Though the club’s purpose was to do
good things for the community, we didn’t do much my 10th grade year
because our sponsor wasn’t enthusiastic about Key Club at all.
But
the following year (my 11th grade), the Key Club got a new sponsor
(a new pastor that had recently come to one of the churches in Vernon, not my
church). He enthusiastically set about making the club active. He started us
selling boxes of a dozen donuts on Friday afternoons after school. I don’t
recall for what noble causes we used the proceeds from those sales.
Likely
it was in January 1963 at our monthly Key Club meeting when that pastor told us
boys, “I have arranged a trip for any and all Key Club members who want to go
watch a University of Alabama basketball game on a Saturday night”. There were
only about 8 Key Club members. Three elected to go on the trip, Kyle, Jimmy,
and me.
Daddy
gave me permission. It was 60 miles away in Tuscaloosa. The school principal
drove us in the school’s car, a 1955 Chevy. Another man (a prominent town
citizen) went along. Those two men sat in front and we 3 boys sat in the back
seat of the car on the trip. The 2 men turned us 3 boys loose in Tuscaloosa. I
tagged along with Kyle and Jimmy (both of them 1 year ahead of me in school) as
they looked up Ronnie and Sammy (boys from Vernon) on the university campus and
found them in their dorms. We talked with them a while, walked into town and
ate supper in a restaurant, and then went and watched the night Bama basketball
game.
Next
came the hour (plus) ride back to Vernon. Traveling both ways on this trip, our
high school principal had plenty of dirty stories to tell us 3 boys. And the
prominent Vernon citizen (sitting in front next to him) laughed heartily at
each smutty story. Both of those men were “good” church members. So much for their religion and for them
giving us a proper education. In 1963, most adults in that area kept their
wicked heart secret in the presence young people so as to not pollute the young’uns.
I am now reaching the age when such hypocritical
adults cease being decent in my presence. Truly it is an eye-opener. I didn’t
know they had it in them.
That
spring of 1963, in April or May our 11th grade class went on a 1-day
bus trip to Tennessee State Parks in the area of Shiloh, Tennessee. Those state
parks commemorated several Civil War battles fought there. As best I recall,
the school highly encouraged us all to go, but did not require it. I didn’t
want to go much. But sister Janiece pushed me to go. So did boys in my class.
So I went, and not very unwillingly.
About
6 AM on that school day, we left from the school parking lot on Bus Number 1
with Free Will Baptist Pastor Roy Barnes driving us. His son, Leon, was a
classmate of mine. Two teachers (Mrs. Hayes and Coach Harrison) accompanied us
to try to keep us wild kids civil.
Because
we left much earlier than our school buses ran their regular morning routes to
school, our parents drove us to the school. Daddy drove me in our 1940 Nash. In
my vain sinful pride of youth, I was ashamed of that old car. I so hoped Daddy
would just let me out in the school parking lot and immediately go on his way.
After all, he was a busy farmer. But he stayed around as most other parents
did, until we all assembled, loaded, and left on the one bus packed full of
juniors.
We
all enjoyed the trip. I enjoyed it immensely!
We saw much lovely scenery going and returning, taking a separate route each
way. The blood, carnage and destruction had long since vanished from those
Civil War battlefields. Now they were lovely fields, meadows and forests dotted
with signs explaining what occurred there late in the Civil War. Monuments
stood erected to the “heroes” who gave their lives for their nation simply because that nation had a most deadly
dispute with its own self. We ate lunch in a restaurant there
for tourists.
Our
two accompanying teachers had the loathsome task of taking money to various
souvenir shops there to pay for items stolen by our school’s 10th
grade class that had come there on a 1-day trip 2 weeks or so before. (So, our
trip was likely in early or mid-May and that trip was likely in late April.)
After
those 10th grader thieves returned to Vernon, God smote one of the
boys with conviction. He confessed his crime of stealing to teachers and he
also squealed on the other dozen or so thieves in the class, resulting in them “fessing”
up and paying up also. One or two classmates (that he named) adamantly
proclaimed their innocence (likely in truth) and thus got boiling mad at the
squealer.
Thankfully
we avoid a deadly uncivil war in Lamar County High School over that dispute.
Had we not been able to do so, likely the powers to be would have made our
battleground (LCHS) into a state park for school bus loads of students from all
over Alabama to come visit, to shoplift from the souvenir shops, thus keeping
that sinful cycle in motion.
School
teachers were thorough in determining how much was owed to each shop there in
the parks, took that money and gave it to the shops along with “sincere” apologies.
But some alert shop owners told Mrs. Hayes and Coach Harrison that more was
stolen than the amount we now brought as payment. Such makes up the fun school
trips.
Heading
back toward Vernon, we visit one of the dams on the Tennessee River. To date, I
had not seen a body of water that large. So the river and the large dam and
electric power plant were most impressive to this country boy. As we travel on,
an alert Tennessee State trooper saw that one turn signal on the bus did not
function. He stopped us, was most strict in his manner, ticketed Pastor Roy and
made him pay the fine on the spot. He was not carrying sufficient cash to pay
it. So Mrs. Hayes and Coach Harrison each pulled some money out of their
personal wallet to pay the fine in full. (After returning home, the school reimbursed
them all, of course.)
The
trooper’s curt, strict manner sort of left a bad taste in our mouths. As we
continued homeward bound, Pastor Roy and the 2 teachers discussed the incident.
Pastor Roy was a tall, lanky farmer (and preacher). Tho the school bus’ small
window to the left of his driver’s seat was somewhat distant from the seat, he
slid it open sideways, thrust his long lanky arm as far thru as it would reach
and said, “Why, I can even give a turn signal by hand.” (In those ancient days,
it was legal to give hand turn signals, the driver sticking his arm out the window.)
Pastor
Roy sang in a men’s Gospel quartet and Mrs. Hayes liked to sing Gospel songs
also. So as darkness fell on our traveling bus, he was leading us in singing
Gospel songs one after another. Most of us joined him. Likely such glorious
activity long ago became extinct on “government school” buses.
It
was about 9 PM when the Lord brought us safely back to our school where our
parents were waiting in their cars to take us home.
At
the end of May 1963, the school year ends, summer vacation starts, and I
rejoice to complete the 11th grade with mostly A’s on my report
card!
I
had a certain man teacher who was most poor at teaching and he was plenty vain. I took his course’s final exam on the last
day of school. The test consisted of 30 or so questions. After the last
question, he had written the next number in sequence, but did not write a
question for it. Upon passing out the test to us, he explained that.
“For
number (31), write anything. But do not write the word ‘anything’.” I
knew that in his vanity, he wanted us to write things that praised him. If I
had yielded to my mean streak, I would have written the word “Nothing”.
Instead I yielded to my own vain streak and wrote: “At 2:45 PM today, I
will become a senior at Lamar County High School.” As each of us
finished the exam and handed in our papers, “teacher” was ever so quick to open
each and look at Number (31). I could clearly discern from his face that what I
wrote fed his ego naught.
Our
high school principal left at the end of this school year (May 1963) to go be
principal at a distant school. Good riddance, dirty storyteller. I lost all my
respect for you.
Each
11 times that the school year ended during my upbringing, it was a joy to be
free of school again, even tho it meant 6 long days a week of slave farm labor
for me most all summer. (But most any break and change of pace can be a welcome
relief.) Also, there were times to swim and fish in creeks and ponds. At age
17, I was more or less doing the work of an adult man. It felt good to be
growing up.
My
older brother, Sidney graduated from school this year and found employment in
Columbus, Mississippi. He commuted there from Daddy’s house for a while, and
then moved out.
Soon
Janiece and her boyfriend (Jerry) part ways and later each of them marries
someone else. From my 7th grade thru my 11th grade, Jerry
was a big “Plus” factor in my life at this important time when I was growing thru my teen years and was
maturing into an adult (with a head full of lofty goals). Jerry was now a young
adult, an adult who talked much to me. With many encouraging words, he
would converse enthusiastically about my own life, my future goals after high
school. Jerry’s talking much with me greatly
helped fill the void of Daddy being so silent toward me. I am most
thankful to him and to God for his presence in my life and his friendship at
that time.
“The
Progressive Farmer” (a monthly magazine) was the only magazine to which Daddy
subscribed. Because there was scant reading material in our “pore” house, from
the time I was very small (6 or 7 years old) I would look at every page in this
farmers’ magazine. (Even if I couldn’t read much, I could look at the
pictures.) And as I grew older, I read more and more of its wholesome content.
About this time, “The Progressive Farmer” held an essay-writing contest for
teenagers. I forget what the subject matter was.
“Farmer
boy Richard, I commend you for your progressive action in writing and
submitting an essay. Congratulations on winning first place! What was your
prize?”
‘I
don’t recall. I may have gotten a cash prize of $10 or so, or possibly only
received the fame of having my essay printed in that magazine, along with my
name and address. I just don’t remember for sure.’
“Maybe
you should write an essay on memory improvement, Richard boy.”
‘It
would be a loser!’
Summer of 1963 (between my junior and
senior year of high school) is my last summer to toil on the farm along with
enjoying fishing and swimming every chance I get.
From
the lower (south) end of our farm fields, we boys would walk the 500 yards or
so into the woods of swampy Yellow Creek bottom to fish in the nearest slough
just inside the woods. Yellow Creek and Mud Creek are the names of two of the
main creeks in Lamar County. They got these unattractive names because they
were unattractive swampy low-lying, slow-flowing creeks with enough mud in
their water to make them yellow and brown in color.
When
we boys walked into those woods on the path thru the fields of the Livingston
farm, we were met with a “swampy” smell and a cloud of mosquitoes intent on
sucking out the last drop of our blood. To add to that excitement, our eyeballs
naturally went on high alert for the many poisonous snakes lurking there,
waiting to sink their deadly fangs into my flesh that I preferred to keep
alive.
One
summer day (back when I was about 14), I was standing knee-deep in the waters
of a muddy slough (barefooted and bare legs), fishing with my cane pole.
Keeping a sharp eye on that shallow water around me, from straight in front of
me I see a large cottonmouth moccasin, a highly poisonous snake, swimming
underwater straight toward the calves of my legs. No doubt he was most intent
on sinking those fangs into one of my legs and pumping all his poison into me. That
frightening prospect caused my body to instantly jump up and run on water and
air to the safety of the bank and then go choose a far distant place to fish
from the bank.
We
usually took a rifle or pistol with us when we went fishing, to shoot snakes.
On a different day, William and I were fishing at a different place on Yellow
Creek. As I walked slowly thru the grass on the bank, I heard the frightening
slithering sound of a large snake close in front of me. ‘Snake!’ I conveyed that
to William in an unusually high-pitched voice as my body automatically
jumped unusually high into the air. William pulled the .22 caliber
automatic pistol from the holster strapped to his waist as he hurried my way,
quickly sighted in on the nearby serpent and rapidly fired 7 times or so. Most
of those bullets hit that loathsome-looking, big, black moccasin, insuring that
he would never again cause a little fisher boy to jump out of his skin. God
ordained that snakes shed their skin, but not for fisher boys to shed their
skins in fast, frightful flight.
On a
different day, four of us boys saw snake after snake as we were fishing on the
slough directly “down below” our farm. But unfortunately, we hadn’t brought a
firearm with us. Sighting many snakes distracted us from fishing. So we soon
went back to our houses, each put away his fishing pole and each took up his
firearm. We met together again, and marched back into that stinking,
mosquito-infested swamp as an army, and we diligently put to death each snake
that we could bring into the sights of our pistols and rifles. It was fun adventure, big time reptile hunters!
On a
summer Saturday, Policeman Denman Langley stopped in his police car as he saw
me walking the road to town, and “gave me a ride”. (There were no strict rules
against that in those ancient days.) “I want to swing down to the creek bridge
and check it out. Sometimes bootleggers drive down under that bridge to sell
and trade their liquor out of sight. We have caught some there before.” As
Policeman Langley said that to me, I marveled that apparently there were
no strict rules against this little boy possibly getting caught up in a
shootout between this policeman and the bootleggers. I considered such to be
far too adventurous for me.
A graveled
“drive” led from the highway down to the creek and the underside of the bridge.
Mr. Policeman drove down it. No liquor traders were there. But Pervey Moore and
a few men relatives of his were sloshing around in a muddy bar pit there,
muddying up the water even more to cause the fish to come to the surface for a
gulp of fresh air, whereupon those men would scoop the fish out of the water.
(It was legal to “fish” that way.)
“Pervey,
are you catching any?” Mr. Policeman chatted with him.
“A
few. But there’s a large moccasin in this bar pit and he seems mad at us!” (I
could well understand why.)
About
that time, another man yells out. “There it is!” Looking that way, I saw that
snake’s ugly head sticking out of the muddy water as he swam around madly. Mr. Crack
Shot Policeman quickly pulled the police 12-gauge shotgun out of the police car
and blew the snake’s head off the next time mad Viper stuck his head out of the
water. Those men pulled the headless long, fat body of the large cottonmouth
moccasin out of that muddy water for us all to view in awe.
“Pervey,
if that big one had bitten you, you might not have made it home to your wife!”
Mr. Policeman chatted such to them briefly and then I got back into the car
with him, most relieved to get away from the snakes and go on to town for my
haircut in Jimmy’s fancy barber chair.
(I
have volumes of snake stories from my boyhood days on the farm, in the forests,
and in the swamps. My Lord was most gracious to protect me from ever getting bitten
by a poisonous snake. Thank Thee, Precious Lord Jesus, for taking such good care of
me, ever watching over me in loving, protecting care.
Let’s
get away from the loathsome, dangerous snakes and get back to Vernon High
School for my last year there. When I again enter that school building the
1st week in September 1963, my classmates and I are seniors.
Finally, we are the top dogs of all the dogs gathered around that
rural tree of knowledge of good and evil. It felt good to finally be a senior
and sense myself “coming of age”.
I
chose not to take any class that certain vain teacher taught, as that would be
an elective course for me this year. So I elected to stay away from him. This
final year, all my teachers were good at teaching and each class was plenty
enjoyable as I diligently strove for good grades.
Mr.
Colburn came in as our new principal. He earned my respect. I am glad he would
soon shake my hand and hand me my high school diploma. Truly, my last year of
high school was icing on the cake.
Hot
September gave way to mild October. I enjoyed autumn days at school and picking
much cotton at home.
We never
did farm work on Sundays except for the essentials: milking cows, gathering
eggs, and feeding all the animals. Back when I was 10 years old or so, one Sunday
afternoon I was playing around in our woodshed. I picked up a hammer and
started pounding on a wooden bench with it (just playing). Upon hearing the
pounding, Daddy quickly came from the house and sternly rebuked me. “Don’t do
that on Sunday!” Though I was only playing, neighbors could hear it and
possibly think Daddy was hammering (working). Thus he would not allow it. Not
only did he forbid us kids to hunt and fish on Sunday, he forbade us to fire
our firearms or to shoot off firecrackers (the loud noise not befitting of the
Lord’s Day). I greatly admire such reverence and godliness in him.
In
late November (1963), President John F. Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas,
Texas (close to Thanksgiving Day). (You can easily search the exact date and
details.) This was a profound historical
event for our nation, and for me to behold at almost 18 years of age. Many
people at the scene saw the actual shooting. Many more saw it live on TV. It
was replayed uncountable times and remains available on video now.
I
was in Mr. Boman’s bookkeeping class when the news reached our school and some
teacher personally brought the news to each classroom. The first news we got
was that Mr. Kennedy had been shot, but it wasn’t known how badly he was
wounded. About 30 minutes later Mr. Boman stepped out to the school office to
get the latest news from the radio that was playing there. He returned to our
classroom quite subdued and solemnly announced to us that President Kennedy had
died.
That
was shortly before noon. I think they dismissed school early that day. School closed
for 2 or 3 more school days as the entire nation glued itself to the TV screen
and watched Jack Ruby shoot Harvey Oswald live on TV, and then watched the
grand funeral of our President. In general, it stunned the entire nation very
deeply. It was all most
profound. I watched much of the coverage. Our nation’s young, charming
president was suddenly gone.
I
enjoy Thanksgiving Day and the Christmas season, with lots of good food to eat,
presents, church and family fellowship, and all. Then in January 1964 I turn 18
years old, now of age for the military draft (which was still in effect). So I
had to go to a government office there in Vernon and register for the draft.
So, I’m beginning to be considered as an adult. High school graduation at the
end of May is rapidly approaching.
Please
allow me to bore you one final time with essay contest news. (Likely this will
be the last time.) “The Lamar Democrat” (based in Vernon) was our county’s
weekly newspaper. This year for the first time, they sponsored an essay contest
for high school students (seniors only, I think). “Why We Should Shop At Home”.
The essay’s title was something like that.
Shopping
centers and quite large stores are now coming on the scene in larger cities
outside (but near) our rural county, causing local citizens to increase their
shopping away from home. Local county merchants (with visions of gloomy days to
come) sponsored this essay contest and coughed up the $15 and $10 and $5 for
the three prize-winning essays at each of the four high schools in Lamar
County. So there will be a total of 12 students in the county (3 at each
school) who will win a cash prize.
“Essay
writing farm boy, how did you spend your first place prize money of $15?”
‘I
spent it on things I badly needed. I was overjoyed to get that money and to
have my essay published in “The Democrat” along with my picture and a statement
saying mine was one of the better essays. I wish you could have read
what I wrote, commending the local merchants for being there just for us
local citizens and how that all we local citizens would benefit by having our
local dollars to keep passing from one local pocket to another local pocket,
time and time again.’
“Farm
boy, it sounds like you should have gone into politics!”
‘Thank
God that He saved me from that nightmare!’
My
physical and mental growing and maturing came somewhat later in life than
normal. I was a runt in statue compared to most of my classmates until the 12th
grade. Soon after turning 18, one day I was standing in a group of boys at the
back of the classroom as we chatted together. With surprise it caught my
attention that I was just a little taller now than one of the star athletes. He
had always been noticeably taller than I. I looked around at other boys to see
that I had become taller than some and as tall as others. Such was a welcome change!
“Love
not the world, neither the things that are in the world.”
I thank my Creator God for creating me with a heart that is void of
love for many things of the world. At an early age, this brought me into
conflict with many worldly-minded people around me. Along about January or
February, the ring man came to the school for us seniors to select and order
the style of class ring each one desired. He measured each finger and took orders
for the rings.
I didn’t want a class ring. Had no use for it. My sister
pushed me to buy one, offering to pay the $25 for it. I held out against her persistence.
At school one day after the orders had been finalized and mailed in to the
maker for our rings to be made, several classmates were talking excitedly with
Teacher about our soon-coming rings as we sat in her classroom. I think it was
Bud who asked her, “Did everybody buy a class ring.”
“No, not everyone.” Teacher was reluctant to say more.
“Who didn’t?”
Mrs. Millican silently looked over at me and sort of smiled, letting me
be the one to answer Bud and acknowledge that I was the oddball. Lord, forever save me to the utmost from
loving the things that are in the world, no matter how great an offence that be
to all the nice Christians around me.
Our class planned a senior trip of about a week to the nation’s
capitol, Washington, D.C. and on to the World’s Fair in New York that year. I
think this was the first time any senior class from Vernon had ventured as far
as New York City for their trip. Most all my classmates got plenty excited
about that trip. Tho I went on the one-day 11th grade trip to
Shiloh, Tennessee last year, I drew the line against going on this trip. I had
no desire to sit on a crowded bus for a week and endure all the unbecoming
things some classmates would carry on during that week. So I stood my ground
against school people and family members who urged me to go.
We seniors had to raise money to finance the trip. Even tho I didn’t go
on the trip I was expected to help in that effort. We sold subscriptions to
magazines, urging people we knew to subscribe to a magazine. Key Club sponsor’s
idea to sell boxes of donuts proved profitable. So our class decided to sell
donuts, as no one had a corner on that market. (I think the Key Club had ceased
selling donuts by now.) So for 2 or 3 months, every Friday afternoon, many
dozens of sugar-glazed donuts were delivered to school and we urged everyone to
ruin their teeth and health by eating them because we need money. “Vanity of Vanities!”
On a few Sundays, our senior class put out a nice hot lunch in the
school cafeteria. Christian mothers (and some fathers) of my classmates absent
themselves from church each of those Sunday mornings to sacrifice themselves to
the preparation of this unworthy cause. Then many Christians flock in to the
school lunchroom after church services for lunch. “Hey all you town folks, we
need money! We want money! We want your money!”
As trip time draws near, all such money raising efforts cease, proceeds
are calculated and the amount lacking is divided evenly among all who go on the
trip. Each pays his or her share and my class roars off, this year on a
chartered bus (for such a long distance trip) to be gone a week.
During that week, I didn’t have to attend school because my classmates
and 2 or 3 of our teachers were not there. I stayed home. Daddy made me work.
He had recently cut a few white oak trees to fence post length because white
oak made tough durable fence posts. The tree trunks each needed to be split
into several fence posts. That “exercise” became this young man’s lot for much
of that week. I felt like Abe Lincoln the rain splitter and enjoyed splitting
white oak fence posts alone (out in the pasture with ax, hickory mall and
wedges) much more than I would have enjoyed sitting on a crowded bus that week.
I desired to go on to a university after high school. I chose Auburn
University in Alabama. During this last year of high school, I take the long
SATS test and another similar test (I think). Any college or university I
applied to would want to see those test results as they considered my
application.
Another step in preparing for college was to take the vaccine
inoculations the college required. I began to do that, one at a time, spacing
them out appropriately.
I mention that now because I got my smallpox shot about 3 days before
starting rail splitting. And that smallpox sore on my left upper arm was
festering out at its peak as I was doing that strenuous work. That tiny case of
smallpox made me somewhat feverish, making me wonder if I might collapse from
the work. But the hard work seemed to be a release valve for the fever and the
effects of the smallpox and it seemed to work just fine. Thank Thee, Lord.
This last half of my senior year, there was much to do relating to
graduating. Each senior rented a cap and gown for the graduation exercise. We
each bought the number of invitations we wanted, mailing them to all souls whom
we thought knew us well enough to get an invitation. Sending an invitation
indicated that we wanted a graduation present from the receiver of the
invitation. Thus a little discretion should be exercised. Often it was far too
little. “Hey, everybody! Send me gifts. The graduate is worthy.”
Likely it is late April or early May when I take the written
test for a drivers license at the courthouse in Vernon. I pass it and get a 30-day
learners permit that permits me to practice driving with a licensed driver
seated beside me.
About this time, I apply for employment at Sanford Company about 2
miles from my house (indirectly) toward Vernon. I want to start working a
paying job as soon as I graduate from high school in order to save money for
university. Daddy is not able to help me financially. If I get on at Sanford, I’ll
walk or ride a bicycle to work each day till I earned enough money to buy a
cheap car.
One afternoon when school lets out, I get on the school bus that goes
past Sanford, ask the driver to stop and let me out at their entrance, walk
into their office, fill out a job application and walk on home. I was void of
knowledge of many of the ways of the world, like applying for a job. I walk
into Sanford’s office unannounced after 3 PM and ask the lady if I may apply
for a job. She sizes up my age and asks, “A summer job?”
‘Yes.’
She gives me a simple form to fill out. Name, address, age, and phone
number is about all the info they want. I quickly fill in all the blanks and
return the form to her. She smiles and says they’ll call me if and when they
are interested in hiring me. I thank her, walk out of her office and walk the 2
miles home. Sanford Company never contacted me. I didn’t know of any other
place to apply for work.
At this time, my older brother Sidney was commuting to work with a
fellow worker. His car sets at our house all day so I ask him to let me use it
to take my driving test for my drivers’ license. Sid lets me. I take that test
on an afternoon on one of the last days we attend school. At the courthouse in
Vernon, an Alabama Highway Patrolman gets into the car beside me, and gives me
directions one at a time. “Go this way.” “Turn left up ahead.” “Stop on this
hill (incline), park, and kill the engine.” “Park here in this parallel parking
spot.” (And a few other such maneuvers.) It all takes about 15 minutes or more.
He passes me and I receive my license to kill.
Lord Jesus, many people have been killed in motor vehicles.
I thank Thee for Thy Most Needed Protecting Power that has kept me from ever
injuring anyone while I am driving a motor vehicle, a killer of a worldly
machine. I beg Thee to continue to protect me from injuring any other person as
long as I drive motor vehicles and ride my bicycle here in Japan. Please also
protect me from injury.
This afternoon that I take my driving test, many classmates are on an emotional
high because we are about to graduate. As I complete the driving circuit
and am returning to the courthouse on the 4 lane there in town, a car filled
with 4 or 5 girl classmates pulls along beside me as they cruise about our
small, quiet town, just having fun in a celebrating mood. It’s hot. Our cars
were not air-conditioned in those ancient days. Thus windows are open in both
cars. One or 2 of the girls spot me. “Hey, there’s Richard!” Both the patrolman
and I hear one of the girls exclaim that. And just as they are about to start
yelling to me in fun, they then notice that serious looking Highway
Patrolman sitting erect “straight up” next to me in his impressive uniform. “Opps!”
The giggling girls quickly hush up and drive carefully on their way.
Our Senior Commencement service was on a Sunday afternoon and the
Graduation ceremony was on a Friday night. Each year, my school chose a
graduate whom they deemed had best excelled in English, History, Math, and
Science, a different student in each of those 4 fields of study (4 honor
students). I was chosen as math honor student. On Graduation Night, Principal
Colburn called each honor student onto the stage one by one, called each person’s
name, named the subject in which each had excelled, congratulated each, shook
the hand, and handed over a $25 U.S. savings bond.
When it came my turn, my Principal said a little extra. He gripped my
hand and holding it, he turned to the audience with a great approving smile on
his face. “Richard took two math courses this year, Algebra II and Trigonometry.
And he made straight A’s in both.” He handed me my savings bond and as I walk
down to my seat, the applause is exceptionally loud. I have so
much for which to be thankful.
I like math and desired to learn much of it in high school. When I
chose my courses at the start of my senior year, both Trig and Algebra II were
being offered that year. (Trig and Geometry were taught alternately every other
year at my small school.) I had taken geometry the previous year in the 11th
grade. I had taken Algebra 1 in the 10th grade. I wanted to study
both of these remaining math courses my last year. So I forewent a study hall
period and took one subject more than most students took in a year.
But upon taking my first Algebra II test within 2 weeks or so after
school began, I got a B on it instead of an A. It devastated me to make a B
instead of an A. “Vanity of
Vanities.” I gave it serious thought,
went to Coach Bell who taught all the senior high math courses, and told him I
wanted to drop Trigonometry (the more difficult of these 2 subjects) to
concentrate on Algebra II.
“I see. OK.”
But God set my heart to burning with regret over that decision. Likely
it was the very next day at the end of algebra class that I stopped by his
teaching desk up front and shyly asked if I could come back into the Trig
class. Coach Bell was a wise and gentle man (especially toward a
finicky youth). He replied something to the effect: “Yes, you may come back in.
But you’ve got to make up your mind.”
‘My mind is made up. Thank you, Coach.’
I diligently dig into both math courses my senior year
(along with my other 3 courses) thoroughly enjoying the challenge of
both Trig and Algebra. Had I not taken both of those math courses that year, some other boy might
have outshined me in math and have gotten the reward. No other senior took
2 math courses this year. I got A’s in two math courses, and no doubt that
was the deciding factor in awarding me as math honor student.
A total of 52 boys and girls in our graduating class received a diploma
that night. When the ceremony ended, we graduates walk out of the auditorium
together and head to a classroom to take off our rental caps and gowns and
return them. Sweet Kaye catches up with me as we walk down the hall, locks her
arm thru mine and smiles ever so sweetly. “Richard, I’m proud of you.” Warmed my heart, did it ever! I was happy!
“Give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with food
convenient for me.” (Proverbs 30:8)
I lived the first 18 years and 4 and a half months of my life in
poverty, extreme poverty at times. Now starting my own life as a high school honor
student graduate, I am most desirous to rise above poverty and its
misery. That is one of my main goals at this stage in life. Thus far, I have
studied hard for twelve school years, knowing that to be an important key to “rising”.
I am most deeply indebted to a good number of
kind souls who took pity on our poor family as I was growing up and helped us in
various ways. Most of them were not rich themselves, but each helped according
to his or her abilities. I have told you of the much kindness bestowed upon my
family upon Mother’s death. I told you of Pastor Ritch buying me a new suit to
wear to my 6th grade Formal (not knowing at the time he made the
decision to suit me up properly that I was to be the Master of Ceremonies for
that Formal).
Most all those kind and generous adults are now in eternity. The few
who are still on this earth now (2016) are in their 80’s and 90’s. The baton
has been passed on to me to do all I can do to help suffering mankind. Please
pray that I will not fail.
Thank Thee, Lord for allowing me to rise above the dire
physical poverty I experienced throughout my boyhood. I also thank Thee that
upon arriving at adulthood I had no desire to strive to be rich. Thank Thee;
Lord, for training me to be content with sufficient food and raiment. I thank
Thee for many compassionate souls who bestowed much
kindness upon my family throughout my boyhood, thus somewhat alleviating the
misery of our poverty. Please help me to always love my neighbor as myself and
thus to always do all I possibly can do to help others in need.
“Congratulations on high school graduation with honours, Richard
boy. Reading of the several speeches you made and the several essays you wrote
(voluntarily) as you grew up, perchance can one see God making you into
a writer and a speaker for His Glory?”
‘Perchance one has eyes in one’s head, one could perchance
see that.’